Way out here!!

For any of you that have heard the random country song on my playlist and wonder why? I did it for a reason! It is playing every time I get in the car! If you haven't heard it go listen to it, you'll get a good laugh! Its called "Way Out Here" by Josh Thompson

WELCOME TO MISSISSIPPI!!

Boondocks = Preterm Labor

WARNING LONG POST!

Lets just say the last days in Utah weren't the best for me. The plan was for Ross, Matt, my parents, Ross's dad and whit to leave on Saturday and drive everything to Mississippi and I would fly in on Monday. The doctor said it was more safe for me to fly to MS then to drive being prego and all. So Saturday we all woke up bright and early and everyone left on their 25 hour drive. Check! Everything is going well! Actually everything went well that day! I went back to sleep and then headed to my parents house where I was going to stay the next couple nights. Tyler was so nice and decided to take me on a date and we went to Chili's for dinner and then to Boondocks to play some mini golf. It was super fun and I even beat Ty in golf. I knew he was trying to hide that he was mad that I was beating him so, me being the nice sister, took the chance to rub it in one last time before I left! He took it well. So that was my night.. Nothing big

Well, Sunday morning I work up with this really bad back pain. I didn't think much of it. I laid around, decided to take a bath to see if that would help it out. I figured that it was the mini golf the night before and I probably did something to it or just all the bending made it sore. I got out of the bath and started to get ready, it only hurt on my right side and would hurt more if I put all my weight on my right foot. Me still thinking the same thing just push past the pain and finish getting ready. Not a big deal my back hurt. I decided to call my mom to see what my dad would do when his back hurt. Just wanting a simple answer lay down put heat on it. NOPE thats not what I got! She kinda freaked. Our conversation went something like this

MOM: Becca, that could be back labor and you need to go to Labor and Delivery..

Me: "laughing" Mom that is not it! My muscles just hurt from mini golf. what does dad do?

Mom: No, Becca you need to get checked out.

Me: No I don't its nothing!

Mom: Rebecca....

Me: Ok, how about I text one of the Nurses at my work and see what they have to say.

Mom: Ok, let me know what she says.

Me: k, bye.

So I text Rach from work.

Me: Rach, should I be worried if my back hurts? I went mini golfing last night and I'm sure its that but my mom is freaking out.

Rach: Well, yes and no. It could be preterm labor, a UTI or it could just be you did to much yesterday.

Me: ok, so I'm fine I just did to much!

Rach: I would just go in to L&D just to be safe Becca. You are leaving tomorrow and just make sure everything is ok.

Me: HELL "in my head" Ok thanks girl. (not really grateful for giving me the wrong answer haha)

So I called my mom back and told her what Rach said..

Mom: Rebecca go in now! Get Tyler to take you

Me: Fine.. bye

I knew nothing was wrong and it was just going to be a waste of time! All of my siblings were coming over in a couple hours to have dinner and I didn't want to put everything on hold. But Tyler and I went into LDS hospital. I told Ty to just park in the two hour parking cause we wouldn't be there close to that. I felt so stupid going up to L&D telling them my back hurt can you check me out. What a little wimp! They were all very nice and put me into a room. The nurse came in and took a urine sample (with a catheter, yeah.. never had that done before and it wasn't fun and made me more mad that I was there) and hooked me up to the NST. I've seen NST before because of where I worked so I looked to see what was going on.. All of a sudden I see the line go up saying I'm having a contraction.. "NO, that was nothing, baby moved or something made that happen!" Four min later another one comes.. "Freak" The nurse comes in and was like there is nothing wrong with your urine but you are have contractions every four min apart and they are lasting for forty-five seconds. I was like I don't feel anything! You don't feel them said the nurse? Nope, I feel fine! Can I go home?! haha nope, the Dr. wont let you leave until they are at least ten min apart.. WELL, Needless to say I was there TEN hours with two bags of fluids, two shots and some pill every fifteen min trying to get my contractions to stop. They finally got my contractions to every ten min apart and I asked if I could leave and by this time the Dr. had decided that we wasn't going to let me leave until they were all the way gone.. I was so mad. But it only took another hour for them to let me go home. But telling me that the Dr. didn't want me to fly out tomorrow, that I needed to go see my Dr. I couldn't believe what was happening. I called Ross "who was text me every five min because he was so nervous and hated that I was there and he was across the country and couldn't be there with me" and told him the news. I think he and my mom just wan't to die! But everything turned out ok!

I went to my Dr. and he checked me and said that I needed to come back the next day and if nothing had changed that I could fly out Wednesday. Everything was fine and the airline even moved my flight later with out charging me because it was a medical emergency.

I have many people to thank! Tyler for staying the whole ten+ hours with me at the hospital. Heather for coming to the hospital with food, calling the airlines for me and taking me out to Cindys house late a night.

Heidi, also for coming to the hospital and letting me stay at her house and then taking me to the airport Wednesday at 5:30am.

Cindy, for letting me come to her house, taking such good care of me and for driving me to provo two days in a row to see the doctor.

Ross and my mom for being my support thousands of miles away and setting up my house. (more on the house next post)

And for all of my friends who were texting me and came to see me the couple extra days I was home.

I told you it was going to be long but I wanted to write it down so I didn't forget it!

Saying goodbye

As most of you know we have moved from dry Utah to HUMID Mississippi so Ross could go to Optometry school. I hate saying goodbye and have never been good at showing my emotions very well. I like goodbye to be quick and then I can go cry later!

Sorry this post has a lot of pictures but they are people I didn't like saying goodbye to.. (no real order and pictures are just ones I had)

My Parents.. I have the most wonderful parents in the world! There are no words to explain how amazing they are.

Heather my oldest sister.

Heidi my older sister

Poo Poo My twin brother tyler

Caroline My younger sister

My roommates.

The Sorensen's

The Reynolds.. Our best friends and one day our daughter-in-law! Don't make new friends to fast with us gone.

All my crazy friends! I know its only of my Malfy but I just had to put this one up for all of them. Anyone who has met here knows she is crazy and loud enough to represent them all!

My work!

I had to put this one up of Raquel! She is the life of the office and the one that took the most crap from me! If anyone goes into my office make fun of her. She the one on the right hand side as you look at the picture! Yep.. thats her the crazy looking one :)

I don't know if I was really sad to say goodbye to our apartment but saying goodbye to everything around and changing places was hard. ok... Really from that place we will only miss the Reynolds! Maybe our weekly smell of weed from our neighbors too

So there you have it. People I didn't like saying goodbye too. The Huston's are part of that group as well but I didn't have a picture of them. I'm sure I'll do a post of things I miss and all of the people on this post will be on it as well. I love everyone of you and thank you for everything you did for us.

Weddings!

On Aug 5th my older sister Heidi was married! We were all so scared of it raining that day because it had rained every day that week!! Lets just say a lot of prayers were answered that day. Not a drop of rain!! The day turn out to be pretty cool because of all the rain we had, had before! You could say the day was perfect! Heidi looks so so amazing and her and Adrian look so happy! My mom did a great job in the yard. Her many many hours back there paid off. I wish a had pictures of the yard to show you all!

Congrats to the new couple and we're excited to have Adrian join our family! He's coming along with making fun of people so I think he's going to fit in perfectly!

Adrian and Heidi!

Playing with the sparklers after Heidi and Adrian had left

Best I have of the yard.

Car Diz Wedding

One of my room mates and best friends Car Diz was also married that weekend! It was so fun to go to the sealing and be apart of her wedding. Her and Judd are the perfect match for each other! Carly look so beautiful! I like to call Carly and Judd my little model couple! Take one of their engagement photos and put it in a clothing store window and I'd buy the clothes trying to look like them haha I love you Car diz and Judd and am so happy for you guys to be married!

Ross, me, Judd, Carly, Chelsi and Mike! Best Roomies ever

Murder Mystery Dinner

A couple weeks before Ross and I left the Reynolds had Murder Mystery dinner at their house! We had heard of them but never done one before. It was so much fun! We all got an invite and on the invite was what character we would be playing during the dinner. I was Elvira-Lyn Fection aka.. THE WHORE!! and Ross was Elias Truist-Heath. It wasn't a surprise that I was a whore! We had talked about it before and come on.. Tyrel would let that opportunity pass bye to call me a whore all night long. Honestly I though my character was the most fun to dress up as and play! Tyrel and Meagan did a great job hosting the party! The dinner was wonderful and the decorations were a great add to the party. (Noose and all :)

I think it would be fun to have a dinner out here! We first need to make friends... and then have them be close enough to fight with them and call them names... So maybe our fourth year haha I think in this game you would have to be close friends or family to really have its full potential.

Thanks agian Meagan and Tyrel for the fun night!

The group!

Ross and I: Elias Truist-Heath and Elvira-Lyn Fection

Tyrel and Meagan: P'elvis Swaggerin & Butch Chastity

Melissa and Stewart: Helena Handcart & Wyatt Hertz

..... and Gina:Chief Breaking Wind & Dee Adela Muerte (sorry for his name! He was really nice though)

.... Oh and I was the Murderer!!

24th of July and Real game

The 24th of July is something I always look forward to each year! Bountiful has their parade and firework show. Now the parade was much more fun when I was little but the fireworks are still amazing every year! This year we invited our friends the Reynolds to come. (yes, probably related somewhere down the line, if Tyrel could remember his grandparents names maybe one day we could figure it out!)
I love bringing new people to the fireworks because my mom is crazy about it all and gets up the morning of at 4am to be the first to set out chairs for the parade and then goes strait up to where the fireworks are and saves like half the hill! I think the great seats we have make everything so much better! Thanks mom

We are a great looking group!..

The fireworks started out a little loud for hala but give her a little mom and dp and everything is fine!




Some of my family on the hill waiting for the fireworks to start


Ross and I also went to a Real game during July! Ross has a guy that he works with that him and his family has season tickets and are crazy fans. We sat next to them during the game and they knew every chant, player and yelled their little hearts out. They also were decked out in real stuff and some even had masks. "Still trying to figure out what the masks were all about but they got some great looks" I love soccer and though their yelling made the game more fun.

Real ended up in a 1-1 tie because our lame keeper hit the ball into our own net!! How long has he been playing?? Hit the ball out not into your own goal! Other then our own goal the game was an experience I wont forget and having fireworks after made it that much better!

Ross trying out the masks!